Heartache!

I always said I would be one of those girls who does not get upset over guys and will never cry and be a hot mess But its actually crazily hard to lose someone especially if you did not realise what you had till it was gone. I have to throw my hands up in the air and say I underestimated how upsetting it can be! How do you deal with living without someone who was your closest friend for a period of your life? 

We have all had heartbreak so what advice would you give to someone going through heartache? Mine would be to try and enjoy the time you had and instead of letting it make you cry let it make you smile and attempt to cherish it. However i was watching Sex and the City last night and Carrie said something that made me think "When a relationship ends do we ever really give up the ghost? or are we forever haunted by the spirit of relationships past?" 

What do you think? Are we forever haunted or when the relationship ends does the ghost go to that white light at the end of the tunnel? 

-A xoxo 

True Friends and Fakes!!

In the UK you normally finish secondary school at the age of 16-17 and unless your secondary school has a sixth form attached to it you usually end up either going to a college or to another secondary school that does have a sixth form. I have found that this first year of A-Levels (GCEs) (the first year of college/sixth form) tends to be a major test for friends as it is a very hectic year with a lot of things you have to deal with and if you are not careful months will pass and you will realise you have not spoken to any of your friends!!

I am the sort of person that finds human interaction very interesting and I believe we can learn a lot from the different stages of life. I struggled with my first year but I managed to keep in touch with my close friends but at the same time I also realised some of the people that I called friends were not who I thought they were at all! So with stages like this of life do we fight for a relationship that just does not seem to be there any more or do we learn to just enjoy memories and move on?

Have you ever had a friendship/relationship that just does not seem to be working any more? What did you do fight or move on? How did your decision work out for you? Do you regret your decision?

Let me know in the comment box below.

-A xoxo